Just Forgive Them

When people cheat on one another in relationships, should we forgive and stay with the person knowing that the trust has been broken, or should we just forgive and move on with ourselves. What ever decision you make, make sure you made that decision for yourself. Make sure that decision was not made for the man who cheated on you or the woman who cheated on or even your children. Always ensure that you made the decision for you and you only. In my opinion, when something as devestating as cheating happens in a relationship, just remember the perpetrator only apologizes because they got caught, not for the emotional abuse that they caused. So just remember, it is fine to forgive the person for what they did to you in the relationship. However, there is no "love" law in the Universe that says that you have to stay with them. Forgive and make time for yourself.

The Energy that Speaks

I often hear people complian about the type of people they seem to keep attracting in their lives. Have you ever heard this one? "Why do all of the crazy women keep coming my way?" or "Why is every man I seem to get always abusive or controlling?" Well I seem to have the answer to any man or woman who has come across more than 4 people in their intimate relationships who are categorized as crazy, deranged, abusive, controlling, or just plain bipolar. This may be hard to hear and hard to endure, but most of the people who come into your lives are attracted to the vibration that you give off. I told you this was hard to hear. People have to remember that we are all made of energy and that energy is never created or destroyed it is just transformed from one human being to another. If you are a person who is tired of attracting the same type of person who you know is not the right one for you, the best advice that I can give you is to change your vibration and your energy. Your energy speaks to those people out there who you call "crazy", "controlling", obsessive, etc. For instance, did you know that people are like dogs. This is not to be offensive to anyone, but we are like dogs. As people, we have a very keen sense of smell. We can always sniff out each another's misery, insecurities, low self esteem, low sense of self, and lack of self confidence. Therefore, if you have any of these entities in your energy, in your spirit, or in your vibration, then you will attract that same type of person. You cannot change the person who you attract in your life, you can only change your own vibration. When you change your own vibration by instilling self respect, self love, and self confidence, then you will attract that Ms. Right or Mr. Right. When you vibrate just the opposite from your spirit, you will attract a "Ms. Right Now" or a "Mr. Right Now."